As I
mentioned the other day, I just moved.
And, in moving, realized how many LEGO sets I have. A huge number of them unopened and never
assembled. A few of the huge ones, but
also some small, simple ones.
Plus there
were a ton of Gundam models. Truth be
told—I’ve seen maybe ten Gundam episodes ever.
But I’ve loved the models since I was a little kid. They were peak “Japanese
robot” to thirteen year-old me.
And so much
Warhammer stuff. Age of Sigmar and 40K.
I got rid of maybe two hundred models before the move and I still have a whole
bookshelf filled with armies and scenery
and rulebooks.
Books. We won’t even talk about all the books. There’s going to be an actual library in the new place. Screw having a guest bedroom, that room’s getting floor-to ceiling shelves all the way around. And we’ll probably fill them.
Books. We won’t even talk about all the books. There’s going to be an actual library in the new place. Screw having a guest bedroom, that room’s getting floor-to ceiling shelves all the way around. And we’ll probably fill them.
Why do I
mention this?
Aside from
further establishing my geek cred, that is....?
I’ve
mentioned before that I worked with a physical trainer years ago, and he
stressed the need for balance a lot.
Some days were more reps, others were more weight. Some days favored arms and shoulders, others
favored legs and core. Losing weight and
getting in shape was about working the whole body.
Because
we’ve probably all seen someone who doesn’t balance their workouts. The almost-hunchbacked guy who works his
chest, but never his back. That person
who always skips leg day. Someone who
runs marathons but never hits the gym. These folks end up getting a bit...
distorted. Out of proportion. Sometimes it’ll actually change the shape of
their bodies.
More to the
point, it starts hindering what they originally set out to do. The guy overworking his chest ends up drawing
attention to his tweaked posture. The marathoner
has a harder time because their arms are weaker and have less stamina.
Figure out
where we’re going with this yet?
I encounter
people sometimes who do nothing but write.
Write, write, write, write. I’ve
seen writers brag about never taking a day off.
I had one guy dismissively tell me once that “real writers don’t have time to read.”
This is
just my personal opinion, but I think the brain works a lot like the rest of my
body. In some aspects. I can exercise and train it to get
better. But I can’t over-focus on just
one part. That’s when things get off
balance and grow... well, distorted. Deficient.
They stop functioning correctly because I’ve overworked that one aspect without
working anything else.
I build
little toy soldiers and Gundams and LEGO sets.
It lets my brain focus on shape and color and spatial relations. I make it solve completely different types of problems
I know a
lot of other writers who play tabletop and miniature games. And video games. I know some who paint or draw. I also know writers who cook, run, do martial
arts, play basketball, garden, refinish furniture—I even know one who fences.
And despite
doing this other stuff, they’re all very prolific.
A few years
back I was having a serious writing problem.
I’d just signed a new contract with a publisher, but I constantly felt
stressed and overwhelmed. And it had an
effect on my writing. It was so hard to
do anything. To focus. To hit word counts.
I solved it
by setting a firm rule for myself. A
mandatory day off. Every Saturday, no
matter what—take the day and recharge.
No writing. I watch movies,
build some of those toy soldiers, or maybe go for a long walk. I have a couple drinks and post funny comments on Twitter. Maybe all of the above. I cook dinner for me and the lovely lady—a
dinner that requires cutting and peeling and setting timers and all that.
And it
helps. It really does.
He said, as
he dove into his eleventh (arguably twelfth) novel.
So take a
moment. Take a breath. Try doing something else—anything else—and
exercise a few different mental muscles for a change
Next
time... a few more thoughts on chosen ones.
Until then,
go write.
What I really need time off from is my full-time day job. Need to spend more time writing.
ReplyDelete(Though I also put on armor and hit my friends with sticks.)